Should a man have to pay child support?

I totally agree w/you! And I am probably the only one who will! LOL I do not understand how a woman can make the solo decision to have a child & then get away w/forcing a man to pay for her decision! If a man has said that he does not wan the child...and she decides to have it anyways...then she needs to b the sole person responsible for that child. Now, after the child is born, the father decides he wants to be a part of the child's life, then he needs to help! But, if he has stated he does not want to be there for the child & does not show up @ any time after it is born..then y does he need to pay? Women get away w/too many things like that!